Its ironic that we get education and training in everything we do in life from brushing our teeth to driving a car. Yet, in the area that matters most, our relationships, we get no training at all. But according to research, it is those with the happiest relationships that are the happiest people. And everything we attain in life will be handed to us through the hands of another. So learning how to express ourselves so that we can be who we truly are in the world is possibly the most important type of adult education we can get for ourselves.
In addition, everyone goes through challenging situations in life, and while you may have successfully navigated through other difficulties you've faced, there's nothing wrong with seeking out extra support when you need it. In fact, therapy or coaching is for people who have enough self-awareness to realize they need a helping hand, and that is something to be admired. You are taking responsibility by accepting where you're at in life and making a commitment to change the situation by seeking guidance. Therapy and coaching provides long-lasting benefits and support, giving you the tools you need to avoid triggers, re-direct damaging patterns, and overcome whatever challenges you face.
How can therapy or coaching help me?
A number of benefits are available from participating in therapy or coaching. You will receive support in problem-solving skills, and enhanced coping strategies for issues such as depression, anxiety, relationship troubles, unresolved childhood issues, grief, stress management at work, body image issues and creative blocks. Many people also find that counselors can be a tremendous asset to managing personal growth, interpersonal relationships, family concerns, marriage issues, and the hassles of daily life. Therapists or coaches can provide a fresh perspective on a difficult problem or point you in the direction of a solution. The benefits you obtain from your sessions depend on how well you use the process and put into practice what you learn. Some of the benefits available include:
- Attaining a better understanding of yourself, your goals and values
- Developing skills for improving your relationships
- Finding resolution to the issues or concerns that led you to seek therapy or coaching
- Learning new ways to cope with stress and anxiety especially at work
- Managing anger, grief, depression, and other emotional pressures
- Improving communications and listening skills in love relationships and work relationships
- Changing old behavior patterns and developing new ones
- Unblocking professional success
- Discovering new ways to solve problems in your family or marriage
- Creating breakthroughs in committment issues
- Improving your self-esteem and boosting self-confidence
- Learning invaluable conflict resolution and anger diffusion skills for personal and professional relationships
People have many different motivations for coming to coaching or psychotherapy. Some may be going through a major life transition (unemployment, divorce, new job, etc.), or are not handling stressful circumstances well at work. Some people need assistance managing a range of other issues such as low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, addictions, relationship problems, spiritual conflicts and creative blocks.
Therapy can help provide some much needed encouragement and help with skills to get them through these periods. Others may be at a point where they are ready to learn more about themselves or want to be more effective with their goals in life. In short, people who commit to seeking psychotherapy or coaching are almost always ready to meet the challenges in their lives and ready to make changes in their lives.
It is important to understand that you will get more results from therapy or coaching if you actively participate in the process. The ultimate purpose of therapy or coaching is to help you bring what you learn in session back into your life at home or at work. Therefore, beyond the work you do in therapy or coaching sessions, you may receive some suggestions for things you can do outside of therapy or coaching to support your process - such as reading a pertinent book, journaling on specific topics, noting particular behaviors or taking action on your goals. We may also work together to help you find the right words and 'pre script' an important conversation you need to have with your loved one or someone at work. People seeking psychotherapy or coaching are generally forward thinking and ready to make positive changes in their lives. They are open to new perspectives and want to take responsibility for their lives.
- What are my mental health benefits?
- What is the coverage amount per therapy session?
- How many therapy sessions does my plan cover?
- How much does my insurance pay for an out-of-network provider?
- Is approval required from my primary care physician?
- Do I have a deductible?
This is called “Informed Consent”. Sometimes, however, you may want your therapist to share information or give an update to someone on your healthcare team (your Physician, Naturopath, Attorney), but by law your therapist cannot release this information without obtaining your written permission.